I was arguing with my sister. She said that we should never wash towels with our clothing.
Sylvie and I had always been close, but living together had a way of testing even the strongest bonds. Our tiny apartment seemed to magnify everythingâmy habit of leaving tea cups around, her way of always borrowing clothes without asking. Still, I thought we managed just fine. Until the laundry debate started.
It began innocently enough, with me tossing my sweaters and delicate tops into the wash like I always did. âWhy are you throwing that in there?â Sylvie asked one evening, her voice carrying that mix of concern and superiority only a big sister can pull off.
âItâs just laundry, Sylvie,â I replied, shrugging. âIâve been doing it for years. Nothingâs happened yet.â
She raised an eyebrow, arms folded. âYou canât keep putting everything in the dryer. It ruins the fabric. Towels and sweaters donât belong together.â
I rolled my eyes. âTheyâre clothes. They get washed. End of story.â
What followed wasnât exactly a fight, but a simmering back-and-forth. She insisted I was reckless, I insisted she was nitpicking. Neither of us gave an inch.
Weeks passed, and I noticed little things. My once-fluffy sweaters looked stretched thin. The fabric felt itchy instead of soft. A favorite blouse developed strange lines, as though the seams themselves were tired. I brushed it off, told myself clothes wear out eventually.
Then came the day of the sweater. It wasnât just any sweaterâit was the one I had bought with my very first paycheck. Soft cream wool, cozy and flattering, the kind of piece that felt like a hug when I wore it. I had saved it for special days, like an unspoken reward.
That morning, I pulled it from the dryer and froze. It had shrunk, not slightly, but enough that it looked like it belonged to a child. I tugged at the sleeves, hoping they might stretch back. They didnât. My throat tightened.
Sylvie appeared in the doorway, holding her coffee, watching me silently. Her expression said it all.
âI told you so,â she murmured gently.
I wanted to argue, but all I could do was stare at the ruined sweater. It felt like a tiny heartbreak. That piece of clothing held memories, confidence, warmthâand now it was gone, all because I hadnât listened.
That night, while scrolling on my phone, I started researching. Article after article confirmed what Sylvie had said: heat breaks down fibers, zippers and heavy fabrics like towels rub against delicates, and dryers are silent assassins of sweaters. âAir drying preserves fabric integrity,â one expert wrote. âMixing towels with light clothing accelerates wear.â
I sighed, guilt mixing with regret. My sister wasnât just naggingâshe had been trying to protect me from exactly this.
The next morning, I found her folding laundry at the kitchen table. I sat down beside her. âYou were right,â I admitted softly. âAbout the laundry. About everything.â
Her face softened. She didnât gloat, didnât throw my ruined sweater in my face. Instead, she smiled faintly. âItâs okay. We all learn the hard way sometimes.â
A silence stretched between us, comfortable this time. Then I glanced at the laundry basket at her feet and couldnât help laughing. Sticking out of the top was her once-perfect cardigan, saggy and misshapen, a victim of her own rush to dry things quickly.
âGuess the dryer doesnât play favorites,â I teased.
Her cheeks flushed, and she laughed too. âMaybe we both need to start air-drying.â
And just like that, the tension dissolved. The sweater was still gone, yes, but the lesson lingered: sometimes sisters argue, sometimes they prove each other wrong, but in the end, even a shrunken sweater canât shrink the bond between us.